When it comes to different characteristics in negotiations, a growing body of research suggests that status consciousness varies depending on the gender of interested parties.
First, men tend to care more about status than women do. Using a university-sponsored fundraising campaign, researchers Bruno S. Frey and Stephan Meier of the University of Zurich examined how social-comparison information affected contribution rates.
- Male students who learned that a high percentage of students had contributed to the campaign were more likely to make a contribution than were female students who received the same information.
Gender Differences in Bargaining Styles
In the context of gender differences in negotiation, professors John Rizzo of Stony Brook University and Richard Zeckhauser of Harvard University asked a group of young physicians about their reference groups and salary aspirations.
- Male physicians compared themselves to reference groups that earned higher salaries than the ones female physicians selected.
- In addition, men’s salary reference points were more indicative than women’s of how much they earned later.
- Finally, women tend to compare themselves to particular individuals whom they know, while men tend to assess themselves according to information about typical behavior.
For this reason, when negotiating, consider offering different social comparison information to men and women. In job negotiations, you might tell a male prospective hire that you’re offering him more than you’ll give others with his qualifications (assuming that is true).
When negotiating with a female prospect, you might be more specific:
“We recently interviewed someone similar to you, a Kellogg MBA with several years of consulting experience. To signal how much we want you to work for us, we’re offering you more than we offered her.”
Do you think gender influences negotiation? Leave a comment.
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Originally published in 2013.
“Do you think gender influences negotiation?” Possibly. However, what influences negotiation may be relating to psychological factors of specific individuals rather than to gender. Both men and women have been known to defy common gender roles.
I think that gender influences negotiation, since we all have unconscious gender bias, including assumptions concerning behavior stereotypes. Thats why research and data about these issues are very helpful.
I have been thinking about this a lot in the context of a female (me) challenging men at the table, particularly in requesting legitimacy and evidence. AOC has a great tweet that talked about women a critiqued as “too this or too that”, with the goal being critiquing into submission. I think as women we need to have well practiced responses to critiques or statements such as “calm
down” so in the moment we can shut it down!!!
This is one reason why men earn more than women. Where does ethics play a part? Is it ethical to perpetuate income disparities between men and women? Why not offer them the same amount of money if they are equally qualified, and be transparent about it?