Pick the Right Negotiation Pace

It's essential to set the right negotiation pace.

By on / Daily, Negotiation Skills

negotiation pace

People operate at different speeds at the bargaining table. This is called their negotiation pace. Suppose that one bargainer is impatient, gritting her teeth and thinking, “Cut to the chase, for Pete’s sake!” Feeling pressured, the other person wants to say, “Easy on the coffee, pal! Let’s give this the time it deserves.”


Build powerful negotiation skills and become a better dealmaker and leader. Download our FREE special report, Negotiation Skills: Negotiation Strategies and Negotiation Techniques to Help You Become a Better Negotiator, from the Program on Negotiation at Harvard Law School.


According to a study by professor Karen J. Jansen of Pennsylvania State University’s Smeal College of Business and Amy L. Kristof-Brown of the Tippie College of Business at the University of Iowa, this different sense of pacing will lead both parties to experience psychological strain. Being out of sync will likely dampen their willingness to be helpful. Even if they do reach an agreement, they may feel less satisfied with the process than if their feelings about time were harmonized.

Having a compatible sense of timing may be especially important in negotiations that take place in teams. The researchers surveyed more than 400 employees of a highly unionized furniture plant. They identified individual time preferences and looked at the composition of different workgroups, and then analyzed people’s self-reported job stress and satisfaction.

As expected, “hurriedness” increased feelings of stress, yet it reduced job satisfaction only when some members of the group were out of sync with others. Even people who would ideally prefer a slow negotiation pace still maintained a high level of satisfaction as long as everyone else in the group marched to the same drummer. But when some people felt rushed by others, frustration on both sides shattered cohesion and trust.


Build powerful negotiation skills and become a better dealmaker and leader. Download our FREE special report, Negotiation Skills: Negotiation Strategies and Negotiation Techniques to Help You Become a Better Negotiator, from the Program on Negotiation at Harvard Law School.


The study suggests two important lessons for negotiators, whether dealing with colleagues or external parties. First, if you are a new arrival in an existing group, you likely will be more aware of other people’s habitual rhythms than they themselves will be. Thus, it may be your responsibility to adjust. Second, rushed individuals feel more strain than those who are slowed by others. Impatience may gnaw at you when the other party seems to be going around in circles. Pressuring them, however, may not be in your interest, as it could slow their decision making and impact the negotiation even further.

What’s your negotiation pace? Share your thoughts in the comments section below.

Adapted from “Hurry Up and Wait,” first published in the Negotiation newsletter.


Build powerful negotiation skills and become a better dealmaker and leader. Download our FREE special report, Negotiation Skills: Negotiation Strategies and Negotiation Techniques to Help You Become a Better Negotiator, from the Program on Negotiation at Harvard Law School.


Related Posts

Comments

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *